A Different Perspetive

Which one do you prefer? Physical pain or mental pain? Now let me give you brief of what I THINK ON THESE PAINS *THIS IS MY PERSPECTIVE* AND I DON’T WANT TO OFFEND ANYONE. PHYSICAL PAIN It hits you with its full power and all at once when we are strong, mentally and physically. E.g. fall, bruise, small accident Physical pain gives us the worst pain at the start and moves towards healing. It only moves forward. Sometimes physical pain may be dangerous. Which can break will power and makes us mentally weak which leads us to mental pain. E.g. Some serious accident which can cause shock. Or Permanent disability MENTAL PAIN Mental pain starts slowly and we tend to ignore it. It starts slowly with minimal or no amount of pain and gradually starts growing inside. And it hits hard when we are utmost vulnerable and breaks us down completely. E.g. Sadness, Unexpressed Anger, Anxiety, Shame / Guilt Sometimes Mental pain is so much that people tend t...

In order to get we want we have to lose something what we already have. If you have 100% and want to add 10% more you cannot do it. You have to remove 10% from your 100% you have to make room for the 10% you want to add. In simple words, you cannot fill the glass of water if it's already full. You have to empty it first. (Just like if you want positivity in your life you need to remove something from your life like negativity) In order to achieve our goal or achieve what we decide, we must sacrifice, many things. But most important what we sacrifice is our time. This world relays on equivalent balance. The law of equivalent exchange. Sacrifices are necessary, you cannot gain anything without Losing something first. So basically we are losing our part of the time which we live. If we just see it from a different perspective. Time is in constant flow. It never stops. Even if we sit idle it will do its work, work of flowing. So if we want to achieve our goal w...

Choose Carefully. In today’s generation people has lost the concept of Control, they feel like they can control the life, world itself but they can't even control their self. Nowadays people's expectation are growing day by day and they are handing over their mental control into other’s hands. They don’t see that, that they are getting controlled by other’s behavior towards them.  When we expect something from someone, and when expected things don’t happen we feel sad. This is how our emotions are controlled by others. We are giving someone the control of our emotion and ultimately the control of our mind. And this is how people are controlled by other people. In this world, to control our self is the greatest virtue. Because the world now is way more different than the way It used to be. People will use us as a ladder and will grow themselves. That does not stop here, but they not only grow but they will also ruin our growth. They show us the fake promise...